Yoni in Sanskrit means “sacred place”. This is the term used for vagina, vulva, uterus. Yoni massage is a kind of erotic massage for women. Oftentimes this practice has esoteric connotations: yoni massage gurus use this physical experience to process psychological trauma, mental blocks and sexual disorders, heal mentally and fill with energy.
If you want to master the yoni massage technique at this level, find a yoni healer to your liking who teaches master classes or specialised courses. We will talk about yoni massage as a way to relieve tension, to restore a harmonious emotional state, to develop deep intimacy and sincerity between partners.
Getting ready
Prepare the place for massage: dim the light, light the candles and incense, turn on the soft music. Arrange some throw pillows. You can put them under the head and knees for more comfort.
You need to create the safest and most trusting atmosphere. To do this, the partner can take a bath or shower before massaging. After you make fragrant tea, talk a little about how she feels. You can meditate if this is your practice of choice.
Scenario
Start with a body massage. Slowly massage the back, sacrum area, buttocks, breast, stomach. Take your time. Breathe deeply and calmly. Try to synchronize your breath with your partner. When her breath is even and her body relaxes, make sure she’s ready for internal massage.
If the answer is yes, put the partner on the back, put pillows under the head and knees, ask her to spread her legs. Proceed to the yoni area massage — pubis, labia, clitoris, vagina. Touch gently and lightly, don’t forget the oil. Play with the direction of movement of the fingers, the force of pressing, explore the process. Watch the reaction of the partner. Massage it until one of you gets tired.
Yoni massage does not require sexual intercourse and does not necessarily end in orgasm. This practice is more concerned with care, relaxation and confidence-building.